I don't [think of animals raised for meat as individuals]. I wouldn't be able to do my job if I got that personal with them. When you say "individuals," you mean as a unique person, as a unique thing with its own name and its own characteristics, its own little games it plays? Yeah? Yeah, I'd really rather not know that. I'm sure it has it, but I'd rather not know it.
- 31-year-old butcher and meat eater
I don't eat lamb ... You feel guilty. It just feels kind of like ... they are very gentle. It's like a shame that they're killed and we eat them. Well, cows are [gentle, too, but] we eat them. I don't know how to describe it....lt seems like everybody eats cow. It's affordable and there are so many of them but lambs are just different. You don't cuddle a cow. Seems like it's okay to eat a cow but it's not okay to eat a lamb ... the difference is weird.
- 43-year-old meat eater
Statements like the ones above epitomize the types of comments meat eaters make that bewilder vegetarians. It truly is perplexing: a butcher wouldn't be able to carryon with his work if he really thought about what he was doing, and a rational adult male is affectionate toward one species but eats another and has no idea why. Before being asked to reflect on their behaviors, neither of them thought there was anything at all odd about the way they relate to the animals that become their food, and after such reflection their awareness "wore off" within hours. So the butcher kept the unpleasant reality of his job at bay and continued to process animals, while the meat eater suppressed his mental paradox and continued to eat them. It is no wonder that vegetarians find the mentality of meat confounding.
Yet for many vegetarians, what is most baffling is not meat eaters' tendency to avoid reflecting upon their food choices, but the array of explanations they give for why it's "impossible" to stop eating meat: After learning the myriad nutritional benefits of a plant-based diet the health-conscious meat eater claims he doesn't want to risk becoming protein deficient. After reading the statistics of the environmental damage wrought by animal agriculture, the hybrid-driving meat eater says she's got her hands full working on other social issues and she doesn't eat much "red" meat anyway. After learning that countless grocery stores and restaurants offer plentiful vegetarian options and that there's a wide variety of cookbooks and vegetarian starter kits that offer guidelines for transitioning to a plantbased diet the intellectual meat eater says it would be too complicated to stop eating meat. After hearing about the suffering of farmed animals, the sensitive meat eater expresses heartfelt sympathy only to end up at the Burger King drive-through later that day because she can't break the habit of eating animals. And after eating yet another delicious faux meat meal that he claims is so much like the real thing he couldn't tell the difference, the meat eater says he "could never" become vegetarian because he likes meat too much. The same people who find it impossible to stop eating meat may have raised a family on their own, survived a life-threatening illness, worked their way through a lifetime of schooling, lived through a major trauma, won a Nobel prize, or accomplished any number of feats that surely require more effort and sacrifice than becoming vegetarian.
Understandably, the mixed messages meat eaters send can cause vegetarians to feel exasperated and frustrated. Yet rather than question a meat eater's mentality, which would lead to greater understanding, vegetarians often question the meat eater's character, which leads to further tension and confusion - at best the meat eater is viewed as selfish and lazy, someone who puts his or her own comfort and convenience above the lives of other animals and the preservation of the planet. But while it makes sense that vegetarians would draw such conclusions, these assumptions are arguably as illogical as those posited by meat eaters. Many meat eaters are also loving fathers, mothers, and friends; they are fearless rescue-workers, dedicated teachers, impassioned activists, tireless community leaders, kindhearted philanthropists, compassionate animal caretakers, devoted partners, and great humanitarians. The mentality of meat is such that it enables humane, rational people to engage in inhumane, irrational behavior, without even realizing what they're doing. So, vegetarians would do well to focus on meat eaters' mentality rather than their morality and approach conversations with curiosity rather than resentment.
Approaching meat eating with curiosity can lead vegetarians to ask the questions that will help them more effectively relate and advocate to meat eaters: How can compassionate individuals put the body parts of dead beings into their mouths and find the experience pleasurable rather than repulsive? How can a nation of critical consumers who may brood over which brand of jeans to purchase leave their food choices so unexamined-choices that drive an industry that kills 10 billion animals per year? How do people not see the contradictions that are right in front of them? Vegetarians-and even a number of meat eaters-understand why people shouldn't eat meat but few people understand why they do eat meat and it is this latter point that must be addressed in order to have more productive conversations about meat consumption.
The answers to the above questions make sense only through the lens of ideology. An ideology is a social belief system that shapes people's beliefs, feelings, and behaviors. A dominant ideology is the belief system of a dominant (power-holding) social group - for example whites, males, or the economically advantaged - and it is so socially entrenched that its influence is largely invisible. Dominant ideologies construct our reality; they shape the lens through which we see the world by promoting beliefs, attitudes, practices, laws, values, and social norms as universal truths rather than a set of opinions that reflect and reinforce the interests of the power-holding group.
Dominant ideologies whose tenets (beliefs and practices) run counter to the deeper values of most individuals must actively work to ensure the participation of the populace. Without popular support the system would collapse. These ideologies rely on specific strategies, or defenses, to hide the contradictions between people's values and behaviors, allowing individuals to make exceptions to what they would normally consider ethical. Such ideologies exist on both social and individual levels; their defenses operate externally (shaping social institutions and norms) and internally (shaping our mentality). External defenses maintain a social structure that forces people to conform to the norm by rewarding those who do (e.g., making them feel socially accepted) and punishing those who deviate (e.g., making them feel deficient and ostracized). Internal defenses maintain the mentality that supports social norms, and these defenses are triggered any time information is presented that threatens the ideology. Internal defenses aren't logical responses; they're automatic reactions that block or distort information that may expose the ideology.
The primary defense of a dominant "unethical" ideology is invisibility and the primary way the ideology stays invisible is by remaining unnamed. If we don't name it, we won't see it, and if we don't see it, we can't talk about it. Invisibility protects the ideology from scrutiny and thus from being challenged. This is one reason that only nondominant ideologies are named, at least initially; for instance, while there has long been a name for the ideology of those who don't eat meat, vegetarianism, the dominant meat eating ideology hasn't been named until recently.
Carnism is the name I've given to the ideology in which it's considered ethical and appropriate to eat certain animals. As long as eating meat is not necessary for survival, it's a choice, and choices always stem from beliefs. Meat eaters are not carnivores, which are animals that need meat in order to survive. Nor are they merely omnivores which, like vegetarians, are animals that are able to survive consuming both plant and animal matter. "Carnivore" and "omnivore" reflect nothing more than a biological predisposition. For humans, eating meat is not a biological necessity, but a philosophical choice based on a set of assumptions about animals, the world, and oneself. 
By failing to name the system that is carnism, eating meat is seen as a given rather than a choice, and the assumptions driving meat consumption remain unexamined. This lack of awareness is why people eat pigs but not dogs and have no idea why.
Carnism is a system that is organized around intensive and unnecessary animal suffering. Because most people don't want to cause animals to suffer, let alone know that they've participated in such suffering, the system must prevent them from connecting the dots, psychologically and emotionally. The carnistic system is set up to block awareness, in order to block empathy and its sister emotion, disgust. When a person sits down to a hamburger, for instance, she isn't aware, or thinking, of the living animal she's eating. She therefore isn't feeling empathy for the suffering of the being that became her food and she finds the meat appetizing rather than disgusting. But this same (American) diner doesn't have years of carnistic conditioning when it comes to eating dogs. Were she to sit down to an identical burger, but made of dog flesh rather than beef, she would be acutely aware of the animal from whom the meat was procured and she would likely be too disgusted to eat it.
Carnism enables people to eat the meat of a select group of animals by employing a specific set of defenses that operate on a collective as well as an individual level. These defenses include, but aren't limited to, denial ("Animals raised for meat don't really suffer much"), avoidance ("Don't tell me that; you'll ruin my meal"), dichotomization ("Dogs are for loving and pigs are for eating"), dissociation ("If I think about the animal that became my meat I'll be too disgusted to eat it"), and justification ("It's okay to eat certain animals because they're bred for that purpose"). Carnistic defenses are intensive, extensive, and are woven into the very fabric of our society and our minds.
Much of the confusion and tension between vegetarians and meat eaters, or carnists, exists because neither group recognizes the carnistic mentality or the tremendous pressure to maintain the carnistic status quo. Vegetarians need to understand that carnists are ensnared in an invisible system that actively works to coerce them to act against their own interests (psychological consistency and emotional authenticity) and the interests of others. Vegetarians also need to realize that asking a carnist to stop eating meat is asking for much more than a change in behavior. It is asking for a fundamental shift of identity, for a profound paradigm shift and for the carnist to resist deeply embedded psychological defenses. No matter how easy it may have been for you to stop eating meat, for most people, this kind of change happens only over time, when they feel psychologically and emotionally safe enough to begin questioning some of their lifelong assumptions. In Strategic Action for Animals, I describe specific principles for communicating with and advocating to carnists so as to increase the likelihood that your interaction will be mutually satisfying and your message will be received. Following are some useful points:
Understanding the carnistic mentality can be tremendously liberating for carnists and vegetarians alike. By making the invisible visible, we take a step outside the carnistic system and can choose how we participate in it. Carnists can choose to more fully examine their meat eating; vegetarians can choose to more fully examine how they relate to carnists. And both groups can better cultivate the very qualities that will ultimately transform the system: awareness, empathy, and compassion.
 This statement does not refer to those who are geographically or economically unable to choose whether to eat meat.
MELANIE JOY, Ph.D., Ed.M. is a professor of psychology and sociology at UMass-Bastan. She is the author of "Strategic Action for Animals" and the forthcoming book on the mentality of meat "Why We Love Dogs, Eat Pigs, and Wear Cows: An Introduction to Carnism." It is available for pre-order today wherever books are sold. To order directly from the publisher, go to firstname.lastname@example.org. The book is on Amazon and all the major bookseller sites. Melanie will be speaking on the topic at Vegetarian Summerfest 2009.
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